Reasons that one does not become successful : part-3

Inability of grabbing the opportunities.

Opportunity knocks our doors only once and that single moment never returns.  It depends upon our ability how fast we grab the opportunity, coming in our way.  We do not get the second chance for the same opportunities.  We need the ability to recognize the opportunity, as opportunities came in disguise in our life.  We either fail to recognize them or we fail to use them in time effectively.  Life is full of choices and opportunities.  It depends upon 10% how we get it and 90% how we make it.  Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice, it is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.  The bigger the obstacle, the better can be the opportunity.  Sometimes, most of the people lose their interest in the work due to bigger obstacles coming in their way, leading to loos of achievable opportunity. Thus, successful people do not look for miracles.  They seek courage and strength to overcome obstacles.  We have often found difficulty lies the opportunity.  Its rewards are great, but it belongs to only those who care to have the faith, grabbing ability In themselves and who make the most of it, for success. Times may get tough, life may not be fair, people may not be honest, but never allow disappointments to corrupt you attitude of your internal behavior.   So, loser sees difficulties everywhere, while winner sees the opportunities every time and that is the difference between attitude of Ordinary and Extra-ordinary people, for success.

Fearfulness of loosing the task.

Fear results in insecurity and lack of confidence.  It destroys our potential and ability. To live in fear is to live in an emotional prison. Fear can be imaginary and artificial.  It comes from a lack of understanding.  Fear of failure is often worse than failure itself.  If you are fear of death, then you are dead today only.  We can't necessarily control our thoughts, but we can manage them.  It may be difficult to make out exactly why we are experiencing fear of failure.  Most of people have been conditioned themselves to believe that the key to success involves risks of failure. There are large number of risk factors associated with developing phobias of fear.  It may be more likely to develop if we you have past experiences where you’ve failed, or  you’ve learned to fear failing through different situations or  There’s also the possibility that watching someone else fail has contributed to your phobia. This situation is called “observational learning experience.” For example, if you grew up with a caregiver who was afraid of failing, it may make you more likely to feel the same.  You may even develop fear after reading or hearing about someone else’s experience.