What are the reasons that one does not become successful ?
1. Unwilling to
take Risk.
2. Lack of
persistence, dedication and Devotion towards goals.
3. Temptation of
instant money.
4. Lack of
priorities.
5. Lack of
interest in work we are doing.
6. Looking
for shortcuts methods.
7.
Greediness and selfishness.
8. Lack of
conviction.
9. Lack of
study and knowledge.
10. Learning habit from
past mistake.
11. Inability of
grabbing the opportunities.
12. Fearfulness of
loosing the task.
13. Inability of using
Talent
14. Lack of
self-discipline.
15. Poor
self-confidence, Fatalistic and negative attitude.
Unwilling to take Risk
: Success
in one’s life depend upon one’s will power. If will power is weak, then
decision making will be poor. Will power is the ability to control our habits. It is an ability to reject or accept the desire
to indulge in harmful bad habits. A
strong will power strengthens our determination towards goal. To carry out an assigned task, we eventually need
a certain degree of will power along with its related risk. Success always depends on your willingness,
on your passion, on your determination, on your hard work. If you are not eager enough to be successful
in life, then either your will power is weak, or you are afraid of being
failed. Your willingness always lives under the shadow of fear or risk. A self-control always strengthens your will
power and improve your habits of taking risk.
Setting up a new business involves some risk-taking and willingness to
run the business successfully. A risk
taker is someone who risk in the hope of achievements and keep a great
potential for loss and tolerates uncertainty.
Risk-takers
are happier than those who do not take a risk. Even if you fail, you'll walk away with more
experience and more knowledge, which can lead you to further success in other
areas and at least one study shows that risk takers end up more satisfied with
their lives because of it. As against
those who are afraid of taking a risk, do neither experience nor knowledge. Therefore, it is necessary to know whether
you want to be victor or victim of the circumstances.
Some
people, don’t change much in their outer
lives while others go through marriage and relationship breakups, occupational
changes, and especially in the activities they participate in. They are habitual in taking risk and
experience of their confidence in their efforts.
Inner
and outer changes we make affect our relationships with other people, and
relationships are among the most important things in our lives. We don’t want to damage them because of
their importance. Our happiness, peace of mind, and contentment depend on our
relationships being fulfilling, satisfying, and enjoyable. But, if we are
serious about Personal Growth, we must put them at risk. They may become better
or they may come to an end.
Lack of persistence,
dedication and Devotion towards goals : If you have
persistence, you continue to do the task, even if it is difficult, as your
devotion and determination towards the goal is strong and powerful. Skills comes only with practice and persistence. Persistence is the ability to continue and
work for achievement. It can make a big
difference, if you don’t have an important qualities of persistence, courage,
patience, and devotion. A successful software
Engineer acquires the technical skills of developing codes through consistent debugging
and testing the codes persistently. If his
persistency in developing codes is poor, then debugging and testing the code
takes a lot of time, resulting in slow development of his technical skills.
Temptation of instant
money :
Every business person works for instant
money and it leads to increase in his temptation of earning more and more money. Instant gratification is a habit, which
indulge in long term pain and ultimate pleasure in the task is lost with
dissatisfaction. To get rid of such habit of temptation of instant
gratification, it is inevitable and necessary that you have to concisely to
study, analyze and follow the steps that will distract of this temptation.
Lack of priorities : A lack of priorities means doing something
thoughtless without knowing what is the most important in life, business, task
etc., A good business person knows how
to priorities the pressure of work, if multiple task is in hand and keep aside
an unimportant work. If you fail to
prioritize the work, then you start doing as per likes and dislikes or in terms
of requests, money. A successful
business person always decides category, classes of work and arrange in chronological
order of priorities with time frame for their achievements. If we don’t have priorities in life, you start
taking up so many things / tasks in hand at time and ultimately, you gain
nothing or you carry out an unimportant work/ task and fail to pay attention to
important work. A lack of priorities is
due to office / work pressures, multiple responsibilities, lack of time. In business, or life, we do planning with list
of works, priorities with time frame, budget cost, forecast if it is delayed in
terms of money etc.,
